Our society these days has become rushed, Parents spend a majority of
their time running around fetching this, running that errand, and
running, running, running.
It just never seems to stop. It has
become so bad that in most homes even dinner time has become a sped
through, gotta get it done, just to get it done task.
When was the last time you actually PLAYED with your child.
I
don't mean making block towers, or pushing buttons on those electronic
books and toys, I mean PLAYED. Full out, in character, imagination going
full steam, played.
Not a lot of parents do this anymore, and I
just don't understand why not. Active play is so important to a child,
and parents joining in just makes their day
You can incorporate
full on play into pretty much any situation even if your constantly
busy. This is an example of an errand I had to run, and how I turned it
into playtime.
Little man and I were invited to a birthday
party this past weekend, which means going to pick out the birthday
present for the birthday kid. My little guy was already playing pirate
and I hate to interrupt good play, so I used this as a chance to get to
play with him again today, and the birthday present hunt turned into a
pirate treasure hunt.
After picking out the perfect pirate outfits,
mommy and baby pirate went in search of the coveted pirate booty...the
birthday present.
We found our prefect pirate ship conveniently
parked tn our driveway, and after getting buckled into our pirate seats,
off we went over the seven seas in search of our treasure.
Not long
after setting sail, dodging a few other pirates, and avoiding a giant
man eating jellyfish monster, we found an island that our hand drawn
treasure map said was there.
Then came
the really fun part, exploring the island we named toy store, and seeing
if the treasure we were looking for was real. We snuck up and down aisles, peeked around corners, outran a scary troll, and finally found girl forest ( the aisle with the girl toys).
Little
man had lots of fun, I had lots of fun, and the people in the store
thought it was awesome. I really don't care what people think, but it is
always a bit more fun when you can get a few to play along.
Its
just a small example of what you can do to not only help your child's
imagination grow, but add some fun to any errand or outing you have to
do. Children thrive on their parents playing in their world.
Active
play with your child can also be used as a teaching tool. Children learn
much easier by playing then by memorizing facts from books.
The next
time you have active play with your child, make it historical. Maybe
instead of being a pirate you can be explorers named Magellan, or
Christopher Columbus, or vikings from long ago.
You can pretend
to be the wright brothers inventing the plane in your backyard. Or
Thomas Edison, or Benjamin Franklin....the sky is the limit. You can
pick anyone or anything from history and turn it into the best family
time your little ones will remember forever,.
Your children will have fun, you will have fun, and everyone will learn something.
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